Intentionally setting aside time to hang out with your kids is quite a challenge, no? Especially for those of us who are stuck in our ways! But, it is extremely rewarding, I assure you. And truth be told? I didn't need to do much "planning". I just had to make myself available when my children wanted me to read or play or help with a craft, or simply listen. The most it required of me was my time. Most of what my children wanted me to do was read to them. Read Dr. Seuss. We have many books by him and we all enjoy them.
This is my favorite part of "Green Eggs and Ham". The look on his face is priceless! He didn't know how good it was until he tried it. There are so many life lessons that can be learned from this truth alone! The whole book he was running from something he ended up loving in the end.
Are we running the race in the right direction? Are we aimed for the prize God offered us? Or are we chasing the wind?
Do you have times when you are playing with your children and you begin to fall for that lie that you're not being productive? We get overly wrapped up in doing those things which are seen--those things that can be measured with the eye, and open for all to see. We fail to realize the real value lies within doing those things which are unseen--that what will count for eternity.
By seen and unseen, I mean that others would see if/when they walked through your front door at the end of the day. Would they know you've been productive? Do you spend the entirety of your days cleaning and barking at the children to not make messes so they're afraid to bring anything out?
Or, do you spend your days reading to you children? Teaching them about having godly character? Doing sums and writing stories. Playing games and tying heartstrings.
Our children need us to be there for them more than they need an immaculate house. A great resource that has really challenged me with this is called "Keeping Our Children's Hearts" by Teri Maxwell. In today's world, some of these ideas may seem radical. But if we're honest with ourselves, we can see how difficult it is to keep our children's hearts focused on God with everything else pulling for them.
I school year round and take Friday's off. So Friday's are the days I "catch up" on house work and deep clean one area of the house. The point is to have a set time so you don't have to think about it. You can stay focused on meeting the needs of your children without feeling overwhelmed by all the cleaning "to do's". Obviously daily maintenance is a given. (Clean as you go).
Don't let the days go by with your mind set solely on the wrong things.
How did you do this week? If you really struggled to meet this challenge, would you consider writing a post anyways and sharing your struggle with us? Perhaps we can offer insights and be of encouragement?
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Tomorrow I am putting a "sign up linky" for those of you who want to participate in the "31 Days to Clean" challenge. So be sure to come back if you're interested in that. You can subscribe so you don't miss out on anything.
We will not be having a Homemakers Challenge this week. We will be gearing up for 31 Days to Clean, but I'm also going to give you some things to think about over the week.
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